Project Ten: BOokS, a love story !

Dedicated to my husband. Sorry for pulling down the house for this project. Hope u like it.

Once upon a time, there lived a boy. Lets call him H. He loved to read war stories. He was that geeky guy who was amazingly mean and rude. To her.

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Lets call her A. She loved her love stories and Sci Fi. She liked that he was mean and didnt sugar coat everything for her.

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“I love the book Exodus.”

” I LOVE the book too”

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Soon, they realized they have a lot in common. So much that he found this beautiful leaf for her, and they wrote the things they loved on it. And stuck it in a scrap book.

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Soon, they discovered stuff they could debate and fight about, ALL NIGHT.

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And more books they fell in love with and read multiple times

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They discovered cooking together !

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And ran marathons together !

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And are in the process of building a life full of books, err…. i mean … memories together …….

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They still go back and read their fav passages and cherish the times gone by

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Thank you for visiting my page. And thank you Jessica Downey for the invite. Any criticism is highly appreciated. Rather, someone, anyone, please please do criticize.

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Vlog: Lake Havasu

Handling the title of ‘Health Freak’ with pride

To start off: I dont eat a special diet by any means. I eat traditional foods that would have just been called ‘food’ 10-30 years ago depending on where you lived. Now its labeled ‘natural’, ‘healthy’, ‘clean’ etc. I eat fresh veggies, fruit and sea food. I love to home cook all my meals. I hate boxed/canned food, it takes the pleasure out of food. I am not carb or fat phobic. I do love raw veggies and salads without my trying. I hate plastic. I hate food that is infested with chemicals and created in laboratories.

My background: I grew up in India. My parents never fed me junk food or deep fried food growing up. We ate simply and well. And my mom was such a good cook that we never really felt the need for anything else. Our ancestors are farmers and we have a deep appreciation for nature, soil and vegetation in general. I love making things from scratch and on my own. I love to make and create things with my hands. I enjoy colors, nature and science. Its all interlinked with food now that i understand more about it all! I went off the radar when i moved away from home, living on street/junk food for a bit and found my way back when my body started to repel it all.

Food Rules: Like Michael Pollan suggested: stick to the outer perimeter of the grocery store, the fresh produce isles. Do not eat foods your grandmother has never heard of. My exception to this rule: avocados and berries. Living in India in the last century, she never heard of this stuff.

Current environment: I am surrounded by people who thrive on junk food. Every get together is infested with coke, sugary snacks, chips and other cheap junk that you can buy on every street corner.

What i face: “She only eats healthy food” which sounds bad sometimes, depending on how and to whom u say it. “Its okay to eat some junk once in a while”. “You are thin, its okay”. “Oh common Archana”. “Organic is for idiots who voluntarily let people swindle their money”. etc …

On being Indian: I am surrounded by engineers and doctors. I think we use science only when needed or selectively. When you go to work to make money. When you are sick and need a doctor. Providing a scientific argument or research findings is often countered by “look at me, i am living and fine’.  How can i say, ‘Oh well, for now!’ without being rude ? I also think Indian food as currently being eaten is absolute crap. To elaborate: read this page. I agree with the author and couldnt have said it better myself.

On Western diet embracing Indian ways: With the growth of yoga in the US, i see people digging into Vedic lifestyle and diet. Turmeric, ginger, garlic, cumin are now touted as the ‘IT’ foods. But notice that its not the grain-intensive diet that we Indians currently eat, that is being picked up. Yes, we have amazing ingredients that are traditionally available to us. But i dont see the yuppie Indians eat it like it should be anymore !

My pride: I think the storm is coming. The 80′s revolutionized and changed the world when they did. It was the time when organic movement started. Women joined the work force. And arranged marriages stated to look ridiculous. I am proud to be one of the people who are at the grass root of a food revolution that is happening. The wheel is set in motion. I dont care if these people dont think i am ‘cool’, i love that i created my own life style and traditions that i will pass on. And i take pride in being an engineer who adores science too much to ignore the research and evidence.

End of the day: Its (just) food. Its a free country. Everyone can do what they want without stepping on others shoes. No reason to ridicule, shout or call names. If you are happy with your body and energy levels and your families health, that is all that matters. I personally cant feed the people i love junk food, just cant do it.

On being an Engineer: I took a VLSI course in grad school. It forces you to think in terms of atoms. Everything needs to be considered at atomic level and visualized to understand the making of systems that work well. And after watching a video on how Ramen looks inside the stomach, learning what foods with high glycemic index do to your blood and how everything effects the hormones in your body, i cant simply ignore it all. Food matters for the overall well being.

Guest Post: Skin Care, how much is too much?

By Maanasa.

I always ask myself with two questions while making a skincare purchase:

(i) Is it worth it?

(ii) Is this what I want to achieve?

From experience, I know I was never able to answer these questions well before I made the purchase. And that’s the reason I spent a considerable amount of money from my pocket into skincare. But I did learn a great deal once I got into skincare and never regretted spending so many dollars (read hundreds..I don’t want to say it aloud, lets just say I could have taken an exotic trip to Florida with the amount I spent) on skincare. What did I learn? Here it is in a nutshell (might end up being a long post !!).

1) Condition of my skin – sensitive, gets congested easily. So relying on cosmetics (makeup) for covered up marks is out of the question as I will just end up with more acne the next day.
2)  Respect your body and eat healthy even if people think I am weird to love green smoothies/juices, raw food, to check if I have everything I want to eat on my plate. Women play the most important role in the happiness and health of a family.  Don’t starve to fit into a dress. What and when you eat determines your skins health more than what you put on it externally. This helped me to diversify my skincare spending and invest in organic produce, blender, juicer.
3) Less is More. You will read this sentence on every skincare blog at some point of time or the other. But its so hard to practice when you wake up with flared up skin every other day and you have no idea why. I have a fairly good routine now and I get drawn to trying out new products. I convince myself, it took years  to develop pigmentation. And its going to take years before it heals up naturally. Let your body do its job at its own pace.
4) Enjoy life and convince yourself you don’t have to be a superwoman to be able to do it. At present, ambitious women have to work hard, take care of family (cooking at home and other household chores), fit in workouts, look great, and go out/partying. All at the same time. I don’t  think I can manage being peaceful with so many things on my mind. I am not an expert or wise enough to advice others. But for my experience, negative emotions linger in your head if you aren’t peaceful and happy. And you are the only one who is responsible as to why you aren’t satisfied. An easy way out is to decide one primary goal and one secondary goal for the day. For me, its mostly research and workout, workout and going out, research and cooking (on the day I don’t workout, I clean my house :D ).
5) Have one day completely off and reduce the stress in your life. I picked Saturdays. Typically would sleep till 10:00 AM, go for a run/hike, deep condition hair, apply face mask, cook delicious food, and lie around on the couch (if its cold) or walk around (if its warm).
6) Ahh I forgot, I learnt to stop spending money on trying different brands. I decided I will go all natural and stick to two brands – Tata Harper and Pai.
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7) Don’t eat refined sugar. Eat dates, dark chocolate almond butter, bananas, cherries, raisins instead. All of them taste much better than sugar.
8) Eat how much your body requires to function at its best. For example, if I know I won’t workout, I dont eat a lot of protein. Don’t  mistake this idea with counting calories. Its about feeling satisfied with daily cravings rather than the number.
9) Eat skin loving fats – avocado ( I am going to have this plant in my garden), coconut butter, nuts, chia seeds, olive oil, fish.
This obsession of mine has turned me towards a healthy lifestyle. What do I have to fret about? I had everything to gain.

Project Ten: Treasures

“The aim of art is not to represent the outward appearance but the inwards significance” – Aristole.

“Often I see students who get more excited about the light than the subject itself. For me, it’s completely the other way around. Of course, light matters (as does darkness), but what matters even more to me is connection. This is true whether it’s a photograph of a person of a tree. I like photographs that help me get beneath the surface of things, bring new insight and create connections. I’m interested in pictures that are authentic, meaningful, full of life and not just well lit.” – Chris Orwig

Hope my post helps my readers know more about me. I have 10 little stories. Hope you like reading them.

1. I moved to the US 5 years ago. Allowed luggage was two 23 kilo suitcases. I packed some random pieces of clothing that i no longer own, the Harry Potter finale book and a stack of letters. I treasure my stack of old letters that i have collected over the years. I still write to my husband (semi-long distance ) and receive notes from him. Though email has replaced most of it, i truly treasure the letters i have stashed in my closet.

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2. Family heirlooms !

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My great-grandma bought these pearls for my grandma. She was apparently a fashionista in the 50′s for wearing those. And they got passed on. And my mom gave them to me. I never wore them till date but i truly treasure them.

3. Creativity is most beautiful individual treasure, in my humble opinion. Ideas are stolen everyday. An artist treasures his techniques and ideas.

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This picture is of Elijah, a pianist i make a point to meet during every Tempe Art Festival on the Mill. He plays his instrument with so much passion that it moves you. Ofcourse his music is so damn beautiful that he has people transfixed around him. He is lost in it. Blissful. Happy. Makes me want to run to work and be better at what i do.

4. My work is my treasure. We work to build systems that help visually impaired individuals. I hope to be survived by my work.

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An Artist with her work: Maria is a jewelry designer. She is one of the best dressed and accessorized people i have met. She was kind enough to let me take some pictures of her, thought she has a strict no picture policy for her work (i clicked one anywys).

5.  The relationships I have built …

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Above are some of the favorite pictures i clicked of my husband. He is my babie ! He hates his pictures floating around, but hopefully he will forgive me for putting his photographs in here. I strategically hid them in the middle of the post.

7. Collective memories are something I truly treasure.

6. The peace and happiness I sometimes feel. I truly treasure the feeling.

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7. My family.

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Geetha aka Mom. The strongest women i know. Cancer surviver. ( She beat cancer to death ! Go mom ! ) Marathon runner. Yogi. Tree hugging hippie at heart. Artist. Mother. Great daughter. Great sister. Amazing wife.

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Annapurnamma aka great grandma. 98. Lies about her age (she has been 91 for the past few years), courtesy of alzheimer’s. Was a widower, who raised my grandma and her 5 siblings. An entrepreneur. Financial wizard. Farmer. Amazing cook. A devotee to Lord Rama. Named Annapurnamma, which means someone who loves to feed people. She does ample justice to that name of hers. I have so many memories of her force feeding me ghee and other treats. Sarcastic. Witty. Beautiful. SOme one with incredible amount of love. Such a great role model to all.

8. Books: knowledge is treasure. Phd anyone? Some of my favorite books …….

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9. My macbook. An enginner knows the beauty of a well made machine. I poured in a lot of saving to get mine and if I were to run out of a buring house, this is what I would try to salvage. #shamelessmaterialism

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10. Over the last 5 years, i have treasured a few “things”. I keep my journals, photographs, scrapbooks, my wedding dress, letters, etc in this treasure chest. I had to click a picture of it since this is the first thing that came to my mind when i started this assignment.

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P.S: Being the true grad student that i am, i picked up my camera, clicked a few pictures on the 9th night and uploaded the pictures. I am sorry if you think these pictures are not worth your time. I will definitely put in some more time for the next entry. Thanks Jessica Downey for the invite.

Birthday: current state of mind

1. Have i out grown the people of my past and have not quite grown into people of my future?

2. Maybe i should buy an eye cream.

3. Its time. I need to go do the things i keep putting off, only to do value less time taking hangouts with random ppl.

4. That street artist invited me to a downtown music show, i should just go without thinking twice about it.

5. Oh, i am such a good cook !

and soon, i was making resolutions !

6. Farmers markets and yoga classes. Its time !

7. Ditch pants.

9. Do more yoga this year.

10. Make better quality videos. Learn photography.

March Favourits

1. Isabel Marant: three words – French, fearless, creative. Love this interview of her.

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2. New blog discoveries: Theforestfeastbesottedblog, Roostblog, and a few more.

3. Swedish House Mafia’s Dont your worry my child. I dont think i like their other numbers nearly as much.

4. This post by Rodney Smith. This list tells so much about the man, and the rest of the blog is an affirmation to it all.

5. Entertaining mom. Taking her around. Learning from her. Getting her to try raw food. Dragging her around in the malls and grocery stores. We bought 30 pounds of groceries and ate them all in two weeks. I believe i am living in a food coma.

6. Smitten Kitchen ! And this post about her kitchen setup. I got over my sweet tooth after my teenage years. Looking at these pictures makes me want to bake again. But no, i dont think i want to feed my loved ones food loaded with sugars and other random things, so i need to come up with substitues or go back to my dear old Angela from Oh She Glows for my baking inspiration. I love the food photography on Smitten Kitchen, makes me hungry and want to make things she shows. It made me go thought it all back to back.

7. The hunt for that perfect healthy brownie recipie: i have some short listed. The top contenders are a gluten free bean based and teff flour based recipe. I am going to give it a try next month.

8. Dan Eldon. Always and forever a huge fan of him.

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9. I read this book called Lessons from Madame Chic. I loved it. Its an easy read. And some insight into the life of one particular French family. My obsession with everything that is French made me read it. I have it on my Kindle. I can lend it to anyone who wants to read it, comment if you want a copy.

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Reading this book and Rodney Smiths post on Paris has had a lot of influence on my style. My house is cleaner. My closet more organized. My food neurosis has reduced.

10. My macbook. Its endured so much and has so much to give ! I am in awe with this well made laptop. My mom gave me her old ipad ! I have a dedicated kindle app and no longer read on my macbook. Its quite nice ! I am thinking of buying myself a subscription to Next Issue, the ultimate Netflix like place for magazines.

11. Yann Tiersen – Les Retrouvailles. Amazing French music alert ! Please do listen if you are music junkie.

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12. Same sex marriage argument moves to the Supreme Court. I am proud to be a part of the generation that is pushing for these rights. I cant believe they use procreation as the argument and as a reason to veto same sex marriage. I loved how they brought up denying marriage licences for man-women couples above 55 since they have a slim chance of being fertile. I hope we win. I dont understand why conservatives need to dictate others happiness to be happy.

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13. A Fashion Splurge: Nude Ankle Boots from Free People! I am a boots and flats person. I now have boots that i can wear in the summer. And they are super bike friendly.

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14. Pictures of Aarna that reach my inbox. Thank you sista !

15. Its spring in Az. Running, yoga and climbing mountains are a part of my life again. I have been doing a lot of it.

16. My work ! I did some case studies with my end to end system. The individuals with visual impairment had amazingly kind things to say about it. They loved my work. I was on cloud 9 on the days when i would conduct experiments. Also, spending time with them, i have to say that i have learnt a lot.

17. Mom helped me clean up the entire house. And re-arrange the kitchen. I love spending time and experimenting in my kitchen even more.

Not so fav:

1. I havent done much work this month. I am torn between spending time with mom and working.

2. Upcoming demise of Google Reader.

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Image Sources: 1. Vogue. 2,3. Screenshot from my kindle. 4. Wikipedia. 5. Stole it from someones Facebook. 6. Free Peoples website.

The niece arrives

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I do believe in love at first sight. I so do. She is so beautiful and i cant stop staring at this picture.

@Aarna, if you ever read this in the future, know that i think you are the most precious little girl ever ! And today, i just cant stop smiling. Am sending this picture off to all the random people i know, creepy right? I hope you annoy the hell out of your mom and come to me for all the cool stuff.